relationships

Walk With God-Solution To Marriage Crisis Today

Author: Ngozi Nwoke Many marriages are not what God ordained it to be. Marriage is to give peace and joy to the couple and glory to God. However in recent times, the rate of marriage failure has greatly increased. But there is solution to this marriage crisis and that is a walk with God! Yet you say, “For what reason?” Because the Lord has been witness between you and the wife of your youth, with whom you have dealt treacherously; yet she is your companion and your wife by covenant – Malachi 2:14 (NKJV) God initiated marriage in the first

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Love-The Fruit Of The Holy Spirit

Love-The Fruit Of The Holy Spirit Author: Ngozi Nwoke How can one ever truly walk in love in this world, where everyone thinks only of himself? People want to rise in the society at the expense of another. But God demands that we walk in the love of God. How possible is it? This article explains how this fruit of the Holy Spirit can be developed in you by the help of the Holy Spirit. But the fruit of the [Holy] Spirit [the work which His presence within accomplishes] is love, joy (gladness), peace, patience (an even temper, forbearance), kindness,

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10 Things To Do When Suffering As A Christian

Christian suffering is a reality! This is because everyone who desires to live godly in Christ will suffer persecution. But the good news is that God will deliver you from them all. However, persecution is neither palatable nor desirable no matter how short or long the period of suffering may be. Therefore this article tells you what to do when suffering as a Christian. Persecutions, afflictions, which happened to me at Antioch, at Iconium, at Lystra—what persecutions I endured. And out of them all the Lord delivered me. Yes, and all who desire to live godly in Christ Jesus will

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Our Attitude Toward Life Determines Life’s Attitude Towards Us!

There’s a well-known quote that goes “Our attitude toward life determines life’s attitude towards us.” Attitudes do make a difference. Salesmen using the ideal attitude beat their sales quotas; students using the proper attitudes make A’s. Suitable attitudes pave the way to a truly happy married life. Correct attitudes make you powerful in coping with other people to ensure that it is possible to be effective as a leader. Among the very first qualities men and women notice when they meet you is what you attitude is towards whatever you’re responsible for. If your attitudes are negative, then you might

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Quality Time with the Family Maintains Healthy Relationships

In these hectic times, it’s hard to slow down when you are working a strict 9-5 schedule. It’s even harder when you are nurturing a family of, say, two children and you barely have quality time to see them during a weekday. You might even think that the kids would rather enjoy spending time with their friends more than with the family, and while this might be true for the pubescent 13-year-old, you can’t let your children forget the values of family time. The family is an important part of your life, and it will define you for the rest

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The Self-Controled Christian Man

There was a time in Wendy’s  where there was a child having a tantrum, so as the people was watching the child being a nuisance to the quality of sound.  The father was cool and in control, and said, “Derek Anthony Bell try to control yourself”. They’re an elderly lady that was in the line across from him looked with awe.  As she was walking passed after she had gotten her food, as she was walking  towards the young man and said to him, “Wow!’ may I complement you on how to handle your son”. The young man turned around with a

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Better to be poor and honest than to be dishonest and rich!

1) Worldly rich: The love of money can motivate any evil on this earth. Rich sometimes get rich by oppressing the poor. There are many wicked rich people in this world who have hardened their hearts filled with arrogancy, selfishness, harshness, cold-heartedness throwing rich parties wasting their money on useless things, who are overfed and has no pity nor concerned about the poor but are hoarded with wealth, pride and refused to pay their workers, who do not even defend the rights of the poor nor share their wealth or food with poor and needy. But in scriptures we see

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Do You Feel That Nobody Likes You? Start Liking Yourself First!

Are you worried that nobody likes you? Feeling that nobody likes us or loves us is one of the most agonizing and devastating feelings in the world.  Feeling as if you are unliked and unloved is tremendously depressing, because human beings are hard wired to be social creatures.  We need to feel like a part of a group, or a part of humanity, even though we also want to be appreciated as unique human beings. If you have been feeling unliked by everybody else, the first thing you need to do is to ask yourself if it’s really true.  Is

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What to Do With Five Common Alcoholic Dilemmas

This Christian relationship help will tell you what to do with five common alcoholic dilemmas. When someone you care about drinks, you naturally want to make him/her stop. Drinking isn’t good for the person or your relationship. People who care about a drinker can get too caught up in rescuing, fixing, or controlling the problem and in doing so lose the ability to make wise choices for their own lives. Proverbs 23:29-30 asks these questions: “Who has woe? Who has sorrow? Who has strife? Who has complaints? Who has needless bruises? Who has bloodshot eyes?” Answer: “Those who linger over

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True Love is not Judgmental

When you seek the welfare of others rather than judging them, you are God like.  A less fortunate person than yourself should be the object of your love not criticism.  Whether their misfortune is their own doing or lack thereof, you, who would claim the favor of God, should have nothing but compassion for them. When I was a child, my grandfather made a great impression on me.  He over heard me talking about someone in a not so flattering way.  His one statement left me feeling embarrassed and ashamed – “If you cannot say something nice about someone then

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